We attended a wedding a year ago where instead of a bonbonniere the couple decided to donate the money to a cancer charity and placed a discrete message on the place card to signify this. To our surprise there was much discussion around this and quite a number of newly engaged couples were inspired to do the same. Cancer touches everyone.
I recently suggested this to a client and she started to cry, as they had recently lost 2 people very close to them. They were so touched to be able to make them a part of the wedding celebration.
You may like to word it as follows:
“In lieu of a traditional bonbonniere we have made a donation to an organisation this is close to our hearts, the (name of charity).”
Other comments brides have made around this include:
I feel guilty at times because of the amount of money I am spending on one day and I believe in giving back and this is a nice way. I went to a wedding a couple of weeks ago and half the guests left their bonbonniere on the table...what a waste of money.

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