Recently I was lucky enough to interview Fiona Roberts, a Civil Marriage Celebrant based in Caloundra, Queensland. She tells us about her work and why she loves it so much.
How long have you been a celebrant?
I was registered by the Attorney Generals’ Department in 2009, having completed my training whilst on leave with the birth of my son.
What made you become a celebrant?
It’s something that had been on my “to-do” list for a LONG time, so when I had a brief window of opportunity (Maternity leave), I decided to stop talking about it, and get trained and registered. I can honestly say I’ve not looked back. I am now a full time Celebrant, conducting in excess of 100 weddings a year – and very, very happy!
What is the hardest part of your role?
Breaking the news to a Bride and Groom that the weather is just not going to be kind to their outdoor wedding, and we need to go to their “back up” plan. No-one likes to hear that their dream day has to be altered at the last minute. Fortunately, most couples are fine, and end up still being thrilled with the outcome!

What do you love most about your role?
The joy of the occasion cannot be surpassed in terms of an occupation! When you truly connect with your couples, you feel such a sense of happiness for them as they embark on the new adventure of married life. It’s an absolute honour to be able to share such an intimate moment.
Is there one occasion (wedding, christening) you remember more than others?
As a “group” of ceremonies, I tend to remember the surprise weddings and the elopements. As a Celebrant, you are so caught up in making sure that these moments are exactly as the couple imagined, so you can’t help but become emotionally involved.

My favourite ceremony to date, was for a couple who had invited their guests to their Daughters’ Naming Day, only for the Bride to arrive fully decked out in her white dress! Even her Dad was in the dark, until the Groom said the Bride needed him out the front, and when he went out, she was arriving in the Limousine. Dad was over the moon, and walked her down the “aisle” with happy tears streaming down his face.
My other favourite, was also a surprise wedding, where the guests had been invited to the couples’ engagement party in a Resort Penthouse. When the time came, they were ushered onto the roof for a “group photo” to find it all set up for the wedding ceremony. The Grooms’ band provided the music, and at the very last minute, the Groom (also the lead singer), turned the microphone around and sung his Bride down the aisle to “There she goes” by the LA’s – a truly touching moment!

What advice do you give to couples planning their wedding?
Whatever you decide you would like your ceremony to be – an intimate affair, a family gathering or a magnificent production, your Celebrant is there to help you. Your ceremony should reflect you as a couple, and even more importantly, your vows should be promises that you are happy to base your marriage on.
So consider what being married means to you, and then consider how your ceremony can reflect that. The beauty of choosing a Civil Marriage Celebrant, is that your ceremony truly is all about you!!
(Wedding photos by Mills Photography, Sunshine Coast, Qld.)
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