
Your best friend is getting married and you’re the bridesmaid. One of the duties most fun is your responsibility to organise a kitchen tea.
The tradition of the Kitchen Tea or Bridal Shower is believed to have originated in Holland, when a father disapproved of his father’s choice and refused to provide the dowry required. The villagers came to the aide of the young girl and ‘showered’ her with the things she needed to start her married life. This beginning epitomises the tradition and feeling behind such a special occasion. They are a wonderful opportunity to strengthen the ties between the bride, her attendants and friends, her family and the family of her husband to be.
When it comes to the style and venue, the kitchen itself is the perfect theme. With the rise in popularity of old fashioned baking and an increase in interest in all things cooking thanks to reality television, it gives great scope for games, and gifts for the bride to be.
In modern times the Kitchen Tea is meant to provide the bride with all the things she needs for her kitchen, from baking equipment to measuring spoons and aprons.
What a great opportunity to bring out your inner chef! Why not invite your friends to a cooking class or a cupcake decorating lesson? Or create an icing and decoration station where guests can create the cupcake of their dreams. Who doesn’t like playing with sprinkles and frosting? It is called a ‘kitchen tea’ but that’s no reason not to offer some bubbly while you are cooking. If you are feeling more traditional, you could have a tea bar, with a selection of loose leaf teas served in lovely tea cups and tea pots than can be picked up inexpensively at thrift or second hand shops. Or just raid your grandmother’s kitchen!
Whilst some brides see the kitchen tea as boring, they miss the opportunity for an elegant few hours with their closest friends and family, celebrating and preparing for something they will hopefully do only once.




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